Husband & Wife “LOVE” means
Too many men want their wives to take care of them like their mother did.
Too many women want their husbands to take care of them like their fathers didn’t.
Too many men want their wives to take care of everything at home.
Too many women want their husbands to know what they’re thinking with no communication.
See expectations only create distance distrust and dissatisfaction .
As a wise person once said love means partnership not ownership.
Appreciation not possession.
A Universal Truth About Love Between Husband and Wife
Thirty years ago, when I was living in the United States, I used to think that these kinds of conversations among students were universal.
Many husbands expect their wives to do the things their mothers used to do for them.
Many wives expect their husbands to give them the love and attention they never received from their fathers.
Many husbands leave all the housework to their wives, while many wives wish their husbands would understand their needs without having to say a word.
“Expectations” create emotional distance and breed distrust and dissatisfaction.
“Love” should not be about control—it should be about equality.
It’s not about possession, but about appreciation.
